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The betrayals of trust mount up, driving a wedge into the relationship.
—Bandy X. Lee et al., The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump
#relationships #trust
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Healthy relationships require partners who are calm, thoughtful, and deliberate, not fearful and reactive. Fear-driven behaviors and a lack of insight are exactly the opposite of what we should expect of a safe, dependable partner or a leader.
—Bandy X. Lee et al., The Dangerous Case of Donald Trump: 37 Psychiatrists and Mental Health Experts Assess a President
#relationships #partners #leaders #leadership
https://www.europesays.com/uk/5927/ ‘My estranged dad left me surprise inheritance – now my mum wants the money for raising me’ #Business #Finance #PersonalFinance #relationships #UK #UmmWhat? #UnitedKingdom
"Liking a co-worker’s photo on social media. Sending them direct messages. Checking in on Slack more often than before," writes Albert Stumm could be a form of microcheating during this age of social media.
@AssociatedPress explains what microcheating is and if it's really a big deal.
AP News · Is 'microcheating' a new kind of infidelity for the social media age?
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If the brand damage of burning Teslas stealing headlines worldwide weren't bad enough, then today's news that Elon Musk and one of his partner's got into a messy relationship dispute on his zombie Twitter platform X.
It all started when Ashely St Claire posted a video on X showing her selling her Tesla and complaining about the billionaire's fight for lower child support for his 14th child.
Join the Developmental and Social Contexts in #Relationships preconference at the 2025 Association for Research in #Personality!
June 26 at the Hotel Orrington in Evanston (Chicago) Illinois
Abstracts open through April 20
Google DocsARP 2025 Preconference Submission Form: "Developmental and Social Contexts of Relationships"The ARP Program Committee is hosting the 9th Biennial Meeting of the Association for Research in Personality including a full day preconference! Details about the meeting can be found at: http://www.personality-arp.org/conference/.
Time and Date: Thursday, June 26th, 2025; 8:00am – 4:00pm
We cordially invite researchers interested in advancing contextualized psychology of personality and close relationships to the Developmental and Social Contexts of Relationships Preconference. The meeting will take place on the first day of the conference for the Association for Research in Personality, on Thursday, June 26th. This preconference is organized around the goal of bringing scholars together to share, discuss, and foster research on personality and relationships (including but not limited to romantic partners, families, friends, peers, and close others) from approaches that emphasize developmental contexts (e.g., age, relationship stage, historical time, stability and change) and/or social contexts (e.g., identity; cultural factors; other social structural factors) using quantitative, qualitative, or diverse methods.
Call For Submissions
Mini Keynote Talks
We are excited to accept submissions (self-nominated or nominations of others with their approval) for mini keynote talks from emerging or early career scholars (have earned Ph.D. or have defended their doctoral thesis) who feel their work and expertise would bring valuable input to the topics outlined above. The scope of these talks should highlight the individual’s personal research and also provide an expanded perspective on current approaches and state of the art innovative strategies for integrating important developmental and social contexts into personality and relationships research.
There are three slots available for a mini keynote session related to the themes of the preconference (Developmental Contexts and Social Contexts). Each speaker will have 15 minutes to present followed by 5 minutes of Q&A. These talks should address one of the following topics: time and development as relational contexts; identities and characteristics as relational contexts; or structural, political, and cultural factors as relational contexts.
Second, there is one slot for an extended, in-depth presentation (30 minutes). This session is intended to highlight a scholar who can speak to conducting culturally-informed relationship research using “big data.” We encourage submissions from individuals who can address how to engage in sensitive and impactful personality science with participants from rich, diverse demographics and/or marginalized identities when working within big data.
Data Blitz Presenters
We invite submissions from researchers at all career stages – especially students and early career scholars – to share a short (7- minute) presentation. Each theme (Developmental Contexts and Social Contexts) will include a series of data and results-focused talks by individual presenters, followed by a moderated discussion of all session presentations. We encourage applications to recommend a discussant to moderate their data blitz session in their submission forms. The data blitz sessions are intended to maximize conversation between the speakers and the audience, and to minimize introductory and discussion slides within each talk. Preconference organizers will provide accepted applicants with presentation guidelines.
Submission Deadline
The deadline for all abstract submissions is extended to April 20th, 2025.
Notification of Decisions
We anticipate sending out notifications of submission decisions no later than May 1st, 2025.
Submission Guidelines
The detailed Submission Guidelines can be found at: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1Yx9fRMn-zTQb7WQ34oDqOX8R2S9dS5Xz/view?usp=sharing.
We look forward to seeing you in Evanston!
ARP 2025 Preconference Committee
Eleanor Junkins (Co-Chair), Jennifer Piemonte (Co-Chair), D Ava Briley, Brent Roberts, Jennifer Hardesty, Brian Ogolsky (Planning Committee)
Group dynamics may influence individual survival as much as personal relationships, according to a new study on wild marmots, offering evidence for the controversial multilevel selection theory. https://buff.ly/I67puRt
#evolution #biology #relationships
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I will save the deconstruction of the western relationship norms as a product of the insecure patriarchy and a tool of oppression for another essay. Suffice it to say western relationship norms are binding, usually heavy with expectations and rules, limiting, and at their base line: unhealthy. A lot of the default rules and restrictions come from the mononormative patriarchal back drop in which we exist, and are in place so the ones in power don't have to do any self work or growth to "keep" their spouse. (The use of mononormative ownership language is an intentional jab)
But we don't have to be bound by those rules. We have braved ego death, we are free intentional beings, we can co-create our connections with partners however we want. We are brilliant motes of star fire encountering each other in a space of possibility.
Agency, growth, respect. These are the foundations of an adult relationship, a true connection. These are only possible if the other person is in a healthy relationship with all the parts of themself first. If the other person is not in touch with their will or higher self they can't form boundaries or ask for needs bc they don't know what they want out of life.
I don't think it is healthy to be in a relationship with a person who is not self-assured, an unintentional being, someone who has not experienced ego death, doesn't live intentionally, or at the minimum isn't self-aware.
Living intentionally is hard work, it takes energy to focus on the Now, to resist the automatic behaviors and limiting thoughts that are socialized or habituated into us.
An intentional person in relationships doesn't worry about the other person leaving or loving someone else. An intentional person is greatful and present for all moments no matter how wonderful or awful; All moments have something to teach us.
The Tower & The Star
One must accept death in order to truly live.
The concept of a relationship as having expectations, as having any rules, as bonds, must dissolve in order for your partner to have real agency.
Each partner must accept that the relationship is over before it can begin.
Each person is a solar system surrounding the brilliant star 
of their divine spark, they can not be contained.
If you shine bright enough, you won't have to worry about your loved ones leaving.
In this essay I will...
Do you have friends that feel like family? I sure do. And one of them was just diagnosed with stage 4 lymphoma and starts treatment April 1. This is for my "sister" of 43 years!
ART
https://fineartamerica.com/featured/family-we-choose-friendship-art-sharon-cummings.html
